Man Says His Mom Has No Idea How to Break Bad News — Seems Like It’s a Common Problem

"when my rabbit died my mom brought it WITH HER to pick me up from school and made me guess what was in the blanket"

Apr. 3 2024, Published 12:19 p.m. ET

TiKToker Brandon Grogan (@brandongrogancooks) posted a video on TikTok within the hopes of studying if other folks have encountered the similar factor with their mother as he does: now not being able to receive bad news in a "normal" method.

It turns out, that there are quite a lot of folks who've were given the same downside.

"This is just me but does anyone else have a mom who has no clue how to break bad news like a normal person?" he says, pushing some components from a plate onto a pan.

He then scoops out some tomato paste from a can, "This is a real conversation I had with my mom. Hey Brandon I have bad news, there's a good chance I'm gonna go blind."

He continues, "I'm like oh my God that's awful, it's not genetic right? She's like, no, no, I got an ingrown eyelash and I read online that if not properly treated it can lead to blindness," he throws his arms up within the air as he looks to the digital camera and goes on speaking.

"Now I don't think that would ever happen, but what the f---- you call me for sounds like you should go get this treated."

Continuing with his theme of cooking whilst talking into the camera, his clip cuts to him pouring some salt into a pot of water. My mother also had a bad memory so sometimes this occurs, she'll have like bad news and then she'll be like hi there you know how your Great Grandpa has most cancers, right?"

He pours some dry pasta into the boiling water, "Nope, nope, I had no clue this is the primary time I'm ever hearing of this. Great lady, but there is by no means like a, whats up are you sitting down presently? It's more like, howdy you are riding down the highway going 70 miles according to hour and you were given my on speakerphone via your automotive's Bluetooth, proper?"

"All right excellent happy you may have a second," he quips, pouring cream into a pain making what looks like the finishing touches of his pasta sauce. By the time his video's done, so is the video. He shows off the pasta bowl garnished with herbs at the end of the clip, stating, "Anyways we cooked some pasta a los angeles vodka."

As it turns out, there were other people who could relate to his story, like one TikToker who wrote that they, too, have a mom who isn't the best when it comes to breaking bad news.

In this particular instance, however, it doesn't have to do with an ailing family member, or freaking out over something they read on WebMD.

Instead, it has to do with the death of a family pet.

Lauren (@_laurenrosee1) stitched his video, which then cuts to a screenshot of a text message conversation she had with her mother. There's a picture of a cat in their text: "R.I.P. - tiki (I put her down this night ) candy dreams [fading rose emoji]"

She responds to her: "Why did not you inform me !" followed by two crying emojis.

"I'm telling you," her mother writes in a reply.

Another TikToker provided yet another example of a mom who wasn't too great at breaking bad news to someone.

Andy (@andyzzroom) shared a tragic story of how she learned that her boyfriend at the time ended up passing away in a car accident.

The TikToker says that initially there was some confusion surrounding the accident because investigators initially thought that there may have been a girl involved in the auto wreck.

However, this confusion was just chalked up to the fact that Andy's departed former boyfriend had "in reality long hair." Her boyfriend's mom ended up calling her mother to check and make sure Andy wasn't with him, and when Andy's mom went to her room, she found her daughter fast asleep.

The mom, who just lost her son, told Andy's mother to inform her daughter that her boyfriend didn't survive the wreck and that she should probably inform Andy right when she wakes up so "she does not in finding out thru any individual else."

Andy's mom ended up going back to bed, and it appears that the TikToker woke up before her mother got a chance to tell her the news, because she ended up receiving a message from someone else she never met before who told her he had passed away in the car accident.

At this point in the video, things take a dark turn, as Andy flips out because her boyfriend didn't respond to her messages from the night before. Her younger sister "made amusing" of her, which Andy says was rooted in her just being a kid and attempting to assure her that he was fine.

Her mother then tells Andy that her boyfriend "almost certainly killed himself to escape from [her]."

Andy went to school anyway not knowing what was going on, stating that she was "bawling her eyes out all of the time," after her name sounded off over the intercom in class and she or he was once notified that her mom was there to select her up.

After entering the automobile, she instantly asks her mother what's going on, but her oldsters do not tell her anything. It wasn't until her boyfriend's family rang her up to inform her that he died, but Andy did not know until every week later that they'd given her mother a hoop after they realized it had took place, urging her to tell the young girl so she didn't to find out from someone else.

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